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How To Prepare Your Child For The New School Year: Back To School Mom Guide

Hey ladies, so as summer is coming to an end, it's time to prepare our little ones for another exciting school year. The beginning of a new academic year can be both exhilarating and nerve-wracking for children and parents. As moms, we play a pivotal role in setting our children up for success as they venture into this upcoming school year; but no need to fret because All Things Mommy here is here to help us mamas out! So continue reading along so you don’t miss the best tips and strategies to getting your little learner prepared for this new school year!

First things first, create a positive mindset. Before diving into preparing and going back-to-school shopping, focus on cultivating a positive mindset in your child. Starting the new school year with a positive outlook can significantly impact their academic performance and overall well-being. Encourage your child to embrace the new school year with a positive attitude. As well, reflect on their past achievements, new goals, and re-establish those routines. When you reflect on their past achievements, you’re taking the time to celebrate your child's achievements from the previous school year and reminding them of the accomplishments they’ve succeeded this far. Acknowledge their hard work and growth, reinforcing their confidence and encouraging them to embrace new challenges. Discuss Goals: Sit down with your child and discuss their goals for this upcoming school year. Encourage them to set realistic and achievable targets, whether they relate to academics, extracurricular activities, or personal development. It’s a good start to also re-establish those routines or even begin new ones to help ease their way back into the school routine much easily. Set regular wake-up times, mealtimes, and bedtime schedules a few weeks before school begins. A consistent routine helps them feel more secure and prepared for the changes ahead. Consistency is key to helping your child adjust smoothly to the new academic routine.

Next, let’s get into organizing and gearing up. The key to a smooth transition into the new school year is staying organized and equipped with the necessary supplies. Organization is the key to reducing stress and ensuring a seamless start to the new school year. Here are some practical steps to getting organized. For Back-to-School shopping, involve your child in the back-to-school shopping process. If you want to create a sense of excitement to encourage them, allow them to pick out their backpack, stationery, and other school supplies. This creates ownership over the new school year and it’s a fun bonding experience (Read below towards end of post for a list of school supplies ideas). It’s important to create a study space that is quiet and distraction free where your child can focus and comfortably complete their homework and study. Ensure it's stocked with the essential materials they need to excel in their studies. Lastly to helping you get organized, label everything! Labeling your child's belongings with their name or initials can prevent items from getting misplaced or mixed up with others. Use name tags, labels, or even a permanent marker for items like school uniforms, water bottles, and lunchboxes, etc.

Lastly, we’re going to discuss the emotional preparation part as the emotional preparation is equally important. Here are some tips to help your child manage their emotions and anxieties in case they have

any signs of worries or not wanting to go. Possibly visiting the school. Schedule a day and time with the school on when it is best to take a tour.. Familiarize your child with the campus, classroom, bathroom facilities, auditoriaum, gym, playground, etc. so they feel more comfortable on their first day and know where to go. Additionally, discuss their feelings. Create an open and supportive space for your child to express their feelings and concerns about the new school year. Let them know that it's normal to feel a mix of emotions and reassure them that you'll be there to support them every step of the way. Ensure your child that what they are feeling is a feeling you get every time you experience something for the first time but they will adjust the more they keep going, plus they will meet new friends. It helps to encourage positive social skills and coping strategies to navigate new friendships and potential challenges. Teach them how to introduce themselves, initiate conversations, and handle conflicts constructively. Have regular conversations with them to help prepare them or even role-play social scenarios to help them practice introductions and conversations. Emphasize the importance of being kind to others, sharing, and using manners. If needed, address emotions and anxieties: The start of a new school year can trigger a mix of emotions in children. As moms, we can provide the emotional support and reassurance they need to navigate these feelings. Talk about their feelings, initiate open and honest conversations with your child about how they feel regarding the new school year, and listen attentively to their concerns while offering understanding and empathy.

As moms, our role in preparing our children for the new school year goes beyond buying supplies and organizing schedules but by fostering a positive mindset and addressing emotional needs. We can empower our children to embrace the new academic challenges with enthusiasm and confidence. Remember that each child is unique, and supporting them in their journey will help set the stage for a successful and fulfilling school year ahead. With love, patience, and encouragement, we can make the back-to-school transition a joyful and rewarding experience for both our children and ourselves.

Take a look at below for our Back-to-School Checklist to help ensure your child is fully prepared for the new school year:

School Supplies:

  • Backpack

  • Lunchbox or lunch bag

  • Water bottle

  • Pencils and pens

  • Erasers

  • Highlighters

  • Colored pencils or markers

  • Crayons

  • Ruler

  • Scissors

  • Glue sticks or liquid glue

  • Notebooks or binders

  • Loose-leaf lined paper

  • Dividers/folders

  • Index cards

  • Calculator (if required)

  • Pencil case or pouch

  • Sticky notes

  • Geometry compass set

Clothing and Accessories:

  • School uniform (if applicable)

  • Casual clothes suitable for school

  • Jacket or coat (for cooler weather)

  • Comfortable shoes

  • Sneakers for physical education classes

  • Socks and underwear

  • Hair accessories (for girls)

  • Belt (if needed)

Personal Hygiene and Health:

  • Hand sanitizer

  • Tissues

  • Basic first aid kit (band-aids, antiseptic wipes, etc.)

  • Any required medications with instructions


  • School-approved electronic devices (laptop, tablet, etc.)

  • Earphones or headphones

  • Charging cables and accessories

School Forms and Documents:

  • Completed registration forms

  • Emergency contact information

  • Health and immunization records

  • School ID (if applicable)


  • School bus pass or transportation arrangements

  • Lunch money or pre-paid lunch account details

  • Any required books or reading materials

  • Extracurricular activity supplies (if needed)

Keep in mind that each school and grade level may have specific requirements, so it's always a good idea to check with your child's teacher for a list of the necessary school supplies. But by using this comprehensive checklist, you can still ensure your child starts the new school year fully equipped and ready to tackle the exciting challenges that lie ahead!

Also, take a look below for some additional tips and advice:

  • Stay Involved: Stay involved in your child's school life by attending parent-teacher conferences, school events, and volunteering opportunities. Building a strong relationship with your child's teachers and school community can positively impact their educational experience.

  • Encourage Healthy Habits: Reinforce the importance of healthy habits, including eating a nutritious breakfast, staying physically active, and getting enough sleep. Healthy habits can enhance your child's focus, energy, and overall well-being.

  • Again, Address Anxiety and Nervousness: Many children feel anxious or nervous about the first day of school or returning after a break. Be empathetic and provide emotional support, reassuring them that it's normal to feel this way. Encourage them to talk about their concerns and listen without judgment.

  • Prepare for School Transportation: If your child will be using school transportation, familiarize them with the bus route and safety rules. If they are walking or cycling to school, practice the route together, and discuss road safety.

  • Teach Problem-Solving Skills: Help your child develop problem-solving skills so they can handle challenges independently. Encourage them to think critically and find solutions to various situations they may encounter at school.

  • Promote Independence: Encourage your child to take on age-appropriate responsibilities, such as packing their backpack, organizing their study area, and managing their school supplies. Developing independence fosters self-confidence and responsibility.

  • Monitor Screen Time: While technology can be valuable for learning, set reasonable limits on screen time to ensure your child has a healthy balance between academics, physical activities, and leisure.

  • Support Homework Time: Designate a specific time and place for homework to be completed. Offer support when needed but encourage your child to try solving problems on their own first.

  • Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate your child's academic and personal achievements throughout the school year. Acknowledging their efforts and progress boosts their self-esteem and motivation.

  • Lead by Example: As a mom, model a positive attitude toward learning and school. Share your own experiences and emphasize the value of education in achieving goals and dreams.

  • Create a Family Calendar: Use a family calendar to keep track of school events, extracurricular activities, and important dates. This helps everyone stay organized and avoid scheduling conflicts.

Remember that every child is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. Stay tuned to your child's needs, interests, and challenges, and adapt your approach accordingly. Most importantly, be a loving and supportive presence in your child's life as they embark on a new school year. Your encouragement and guidance can make a significant difference in their academic and emotional growth.

I hope this helps and you enjoyed today’s read. Thanks for checking out , “How to prepare your child for the new school year: Back To School Mom Guide.”

With Love,

All Things Mommy

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